tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6193753530280373065.post9148552306795655458..comments2023-06-13T07:07:29.903-07:00Comments on The Other Side: A beautiful theoryKamihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6193753530280373065.post-33339580594766130172009-05-22T06:00:27.341-07:002009-05-22T06:00:27.341-07:00I was afraid of the same worst case scenario, but ...I was afraid of the same worst case scenario, but in the end, even though I did get the dreaded BFN, I have been able to return to nursing with Eggbert despite having gone a full month without nursing her at all AND having an huge drop in supply due to the suppression meds. She is still interested, and my supply has built back up to something acceptable to us both in just a week. Obviously everyone is different, but I am very optimistic that if you keep nursing LB throughout your cycle, you can maintain the nursing relationship even if your supply does take a hit, as long as she's still interested.<br /><br />About not knowing whose baby it is, would it actually affect the care that you'd receive? I understand that the worries would be different, but do they actually have insurmountable practical implications?<br /><br />Good luck making a decision.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02747382929049494704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6193753530280373065.post-35813584569718504292009-05-22T05:46:29.017-07:002009-05-22T05:46:29.017-07:00Dr. W. added that we wouldn't know what kind of ri...<I>Dr. W. added that we wouldn't know what kind of risks we were looking at during pregnancy.</I>I can certainly understand that there are many, many factors to consider in making the difficult decision whether to try with your own eggs too, but (at least to me) this seems like one that could be dealt with.<br /><br />If you're talking about age-related chromosomal-type risks, couldn't you assume that the baby was genetically yours and therefore higher risk and do whatever kinds of prenatal tests you felt comfortable with, using those numbers? <br /><br />And, of course, if you decide to do an amnio or CVS, presumably you'll get conclusive answers about whether there's a chromosomal abnormality or not. <br /><br />But maybe I'm missing something. It certainly wouldn't be the first time.niobehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10685766216611639434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6193753530280373065.post-32738293746190922642009-05-22T01:39:27.364-07:002009-05-22T01:39:27.364-07:00I'm sorry that this is such a difficult decision f...I'm sorry that this is such a difficult decision for you. I hope you find an answer that works for you.battynursehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02240029154165501340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6193753530280373065.post-29056720087119786422009-05-21T20:48:41.464-07:002009-05-21T20:48:41.464-07:00It's that never-ending what-if. There's many angle...It's that never-ending what-if. There's many angles to the what if, and having LB is wonderful, but I guess the sting of not succeding with your own eggs never entirely fades, does it?<br /><br />xx<br /><br />gGeohdehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09084396088622931768noreply@blogger.com